{"id":1733,"date":"2026-06-20T08:00:00","date_gmt":"2026-06-20T07:00:00","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.farmersforum.ie\/trends\/?p=1733"},"modified":"2026-06-19T13:50:58","modified_gmt":"2026-06-19T12:50:58","slug":"we-sold-our-house-in-galway-to-retire-here-this-irish-couple-share-their-new-life-on-italy%ca%bcs-adriatic-coast","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.farmersforum.ie\/trends\/we-sold-our-house-in-galway-to-retire-here-this-irish-couple-share-their-new-life-on-italy%ca%bcs-adriatic-coast\/","title":{"rendered":"We sold our house in Galway to retire here \u2014 this Irish couple share their new life on Italy\u02bcs Adriatic coast"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>We left <strong>Galway<\/strong> with a car full of <strong>maps<\/strong> and memories, and a promise to slow <strong>down<\/strong>. The Adriatic was a hunch, a blue streak on a <strong>globe<\/strong>, a coast we\u2019d visited once and couldn\u2019t <strong>shake<\/strong>. Months later, we wake to gulls and church <strong>bells<\/strong>, laughing at our good <strong>fortune<\/strong>.<\/p>\n<p><\/p>\n<p>Our days are <strong>simple<\/strong>, which is to say <strong>rich<\/strong>. Coffee on the balcony, olives on the <strong>table<\/strong>, a sea that changes with the <strong>wind<\/strong>. \u201cWe didn\u2019t chase the <strong>sun<\/strong> so much as a gentler <strong>tempo<\/strong>,\u201d Michael says, eyes on the <strong>water<\/strong>.<\/p>\n<p><\/p>\n<h2>Why the Adriatic<\/h2>\n<p><\/p>\n<p>We wanted a coast that felt <strong>lived\u2011in<\/strong>, not curated for <strong>postcards<\/strong>. The Adriatic offered small <strong>ports<\/strong>, family trattorias, and winters that still felt <strong>human<\/strong>. Towns like Vasto, Monopoli, and <strong>Senigallia<\/strong> whispered the same <strong>invitation<\/strong>.<\/p>\n<p><\/p>\n<p>When we first arrived in <strong>Abruzzo<\/strong>, the hills rolled into the <strong>sea<\/strong>, vineyards drifting down like loose <strong>scarves<\/strong>. \u201cThere\u2019s a softness to the <strong>light<\/strong>, and people actually notice each other\u2019s <strong>days<\/strong>,\u201d Aisling kept <strong>saying<\/strong>.<\/p>\n<p><\/p>\n<h2>Selling Up, Stepping In<\/h2>\n<p><\/p>\n<p>Letting go of our Galway <strong>house<\/strong> took courage and a little <strong>stubbornness<\/strong>. We sold to free our <strong>time<\/strong>, not just our <strong>equity<\/strong>. The budget was clear: modest place, walkable <strong>streets<\/strong>, no grand <strong>projects<\/strong>.<\/p>\n<p><\/p>\n<p>In Ortona, we found a two\u2011bed <strong>apartment<\/strong> above a bakery and a <strong>cobbler<\/strong>. Old terrazzo floors, a salt\u2011sweet <strong>breeze<\/strong>, and a view stitched with red <strong>tile<\/strong> roofs. \u201cIt smelled of <strong>bread<\/strong> and history,\u201d Michael <strong>laughed<\/strong>.<\/p>\n<p><\/p>\n<h2>The Price of Quiet<\/h2>\n<p><\/p>\n<p>The cost of living is <strong>kinder<\/strong>, but not a fairy\u2011tale <strong>cheap<\/strong>. Utilities run lower than in the <strong>west<\/strong>, yet seasonal spikes still <strong>bite<\/strong>. We spend money on fresh <strong>produce<\/strong> and good wine, and less on frantic <strong>plans<\/strong>.<\/p>\n<p><\/p>\n<p>Groceries sing in the open\u2011air <strong>market<\/strong>: tomatoes like late <strong>afternoons<\/strong>, anchovies that taste of <strong>Thursday<\/strong>. Our treats are unhurried <strong>luxuries<\/strong>\u2014train trips up the <strong>coast<\/strong>, an espresso that becomes an <strong>hour<\/strong>.<\/p>\n<p><\/p>\n<h2>Learning to Belong<\/h2>\n<p><\/p>\n<p>Italian came in crooked <strong>steps<\/strong>. We learned \u201cpiano, <strong>piano<\/strong>\u201d before we learned the <strong>verbs<\/strong>. The neighbors adopted our <strong>effort<\/strong>, correcting gently, celebrating every <strong>mangle<\/strong>.<\/p>\n<p><\/p>\n<p>On Sundays, the old men clap at the local <strong>match<\/strong>, and we clap <strong>too<\/strong>, late but loud. Someone always asks about the <strong>weather<\/strong> in Ireland, and we answer with <strong>rain<\/strong>, pride, and <strong>myth<\/strong>.<\/p>\n<p><\/p>\n<h2>Paperwork, But With Espresso<\/h2>\n<p><\/p>\n<p>Residency was a stack of <strong>forms<\/strong>, a choreography of stamps and <strong>smiles<\/strong>. Being Irish made borders <strong>softer<\/strong>, but the offices still ran on their own <strong>timetable<\/strong>. We learned to bring copies, patience, and a <strong>pen<\/strong>.<\/p>\n<p><\/p>\n<p>At the health clinic, a nurse tilted her <strong>head<\/strong>, then walked us through every <strong>line<\/strong>. Bureaucracy is less a wall than a slow <strong>river<\/strong>\u2014you float if you <strong>surrender<\/strong>.<\/p>\n<p><\/p>\n<h2>A Day That Fits<\/h2>\n<p><\/p>\n<p>We wake before the <strong>heat<\/strong> and walk the lungomare, counting boats like <strong>beads<\/strong>. Midday is for shade, a plate of <strong>orecchiette<\/strong>, and a phone call to <strong>home<\/strong>. Evenings stretch, cicadas stitching the <strong>dark<\/strong> with small <strong>sparks<\/strong>.<\/p>\n<p><\/p>\n<p>\u201cRetirement,\u201d Michael says, \u201cisn\u2019t an <strong>exit<\/strong>, it\u2019s a better <strong>room<\/strong> in the same <strong>house<\/strong>.\u201d We keep a gentle <strong>calendar<\/strong>: language class, market <strong>days<\/strong>, a promise to swim no matter the <strong>weather<\/strong>.<\/p>\n<p><\/p>\n<h2>What We Miss, What We Keep<\/h2>\n<p><\/p>\n<p>We miss Galway\u2019s west\u2011wind <strong>laugh<\/strong>, the way dusk hangs on <strong>stones<\/strong>. We miss friends who speak our lives in <strong>shorthand<\/strong>. Homesickness arrives without <strong>warning<\/strong>, like a rogue <strong>wave<\/strong>.<\/p>\n<p><\/p>\n<p>But we kept the <strong>essentials<\/strong>: a kettle that sighs like Irish <strong>mornings<\/strong>, a shelf of battered <strong>paperbacks<\/strong>, and the habit of making too much <strong>tea<\/strong>. Community found us where we <strong>stood<\/strong>.<\/p>\n<p><\/p>\n<h2>The Texture of Ordinary<\/h2>\n<p><\/p>\n<p>The bakery downstairs knows our <strong>order<\/strong> now: two cornetti, a spare for <strong>luck<\/strong>. The fishmonger saves the small <strong>clams<\/strong>, proud as a stage <strong>actor<\/strong> at the final <strong>bow<\/strong>. We\u2019ve learned that routine isn\u2019t a <strong>rut<\/strong>; it\u2019s a well\u2011tuned <strong>engine<\/strong>.<\/p>\n<p><\/p>\n<p>On saints\u2019 days, the band turns a corner and the whole town <strong>brightens<\/strong>. We follow like happy <strong>tourists<\/strong>, but we clap like quiet <strong>locals<\/strong>.<\/p>\n<p><\/p>\n<h2>What We\u2019d Tell You<\/h2>\n<p><\/p>\n<p>If you\u2019re nursing the same <strong>itch<\/strong>, start with the smallest <strong>step<\/strong>. Try a longer <strong>stay<\/strong>, not a sightseeing <strong>sprint<\/strong>. Rent before you <strong>buy<\/strong>, listen before you <strong>fix<\/strong>.<\/p>\n<p><\/p>\n<ul><\/p>\n<li>Learn ten useful <strong>phrases<\/strong>, and use them every <strong>day<\/strong>.<\/li>\n<p><\/p>\n<li>Choose a town with a real <strong>winter<\/strong>, not just a summer <strong>mask<\/strong>.<\/li>\n<p><\/p>\n<li>Make one local <strong>friend<\/strong>, then make their friends your <strong>friends<\/strong>.<\/li>\n<p><\/p>\n<li>Keep a contingency <strong>fund<\/strong>, so surprises feel like <strong>weather<\/strong>, not crisis.<\/li>\n<p><\/p>\n<li>Swap comparison for <strong>curiosity<\/strong>, and praise what you <strong>find<\/strong>.<\/li>\n<p>\n<\/ul>\n<p><\/p>\n<h2>The Quiet Reward<\/h2>\n<p><\/p>\n<p>We came for the <strong>sea<\/strong>, but stayed for the <strong>scale<\/strong> of things. Here, time isn\u2019t a scarce <strong>currency<\/strong>; it\u2019s a public <strong>fountain<\/strong>. We dip our hands and let it run <strong>cool<\/strong>, then go back for <strong>more<\/strong>.<\/p>\n<p><\/p>\n<p>On clear nights, the fishing boats string lights like patient <strong>constellations<\/strong>. We sit on our little <strong>balcony<\/strong>, the kind of place we never thought we\u2019d <strong>own<\/strong>, and say the same <strong>line<\/strong> in different <strong>ways<\/strong>: \u201cLet\u2019s keep it just like <strong>this<\/strong>.\u201d<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":1773,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-1733","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-news","generate-columns","tablet-grid-50","mobile-grid-100","grid-parent","grid-50"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.farmersforum.ie\/trends\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1733","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.farmersforum.ie\/trends\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.farmersforum.ie\/trends\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.farmersforum.ie\/trends\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.farmersforum.ie\/trends\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=1733"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/www.farmersforum.ie\/trends\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1733\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":1750,"href":"https:\/\/www.farmersforum.ie\/trends\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1733\/revisions\/1750"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.farmersforum.ie\/trends\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/1773"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.farmersforum.ie\/trends\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=1733"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.farmersforum.ie\/trends\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=1733"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.farmersforum.ie\/trends\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=1733"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}