{"id":1587,"date":"2026-06-13T08:00:00","date_gmt":"2026-06-13T07:00:00","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.farmersforum.ie\/trends\/?p=1587"},"modified":"2026-06-11T17:37:17","modified_gmt":"2026-06-11T16:37:17","slug":"we-sold-our-semi-d-in-limerick-to-retire-here-this-irish-couple-share-their-new-life-on-the-costa-blanca","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.farmersforum.ie\/trends\/we-sold-our-semi-d-in-limerick-to-retire-here-this-irish-couple-share-their-new-life-on-the-costa-blanca\/","title":{"rendered":"We sold our semi-d in Limerick to retire here \u2014 this Irish couple share their new life on the Costa Blanca"},"content":{"rendered":"

They packed up a lifetime<\/strong> in Limerick and set their sights on a brighter<\/strong> coast. Deirdre and Liam O\u2019Connell, both in their early sixties<\/strong>, swapped rain-slicked pavements for warm tiles<\/strong>, and the reserved cadence of Irish suburbia for the lilting<\/strong> hum of Mediterranean afternoons. \u201cWe wanted to feel light<\/strong> again,\u201d says Deirdre, \u201cto wake and see a sky<\/strong> that invites you outside.\u201d<\/p>\n

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Why the leap felt inevitable<\/h2>\n

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For years, the couple kept a map<\/strong> on the fridge and a running joke<\/strong> about retiring somewhere sunny. The pandemic nudged the joke<\/strong> into a plan, and rising bills turned the plan<\/strong> into a timeline. \u201cWe weren\u2019t chasing luxury<\/strong>,\u201d Liam says, \u201cjust more life<\/strong> in the day.\u201d<\/p>\n

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They sold their familiar semi-detached<\/strong> home and did the maths until the sums felt sane<\/strong>. \u201cIn Limerick, we could afford comfort<\/strong>; here, we could afford freedom<\/strong>,\u201d Deirdre explains. The Costa Blanca seemed reachable<\/strong>, not remote; lively, yet laid-back<\/strong>.<\/p>\n

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Choosing a town that felt like a village<\/h2>\n

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They landed in J\u00e1vea<\/strong>, the kind of place where the sea looks painted<\/strong> and the streets smell like oranges<\/strong>. A compact apartment near the Arenal<\/strong> beach ticked their boxes: south-facing balcony<\/strong>, lift access, and a quiet block<\/strong> with older neighbors.<\/p>\n

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\u201cWe didn\u2019t want a project<\/strong>,\u201d Liam laughs. \u201cWe wanted a porch<\/strong>.\u201d They picked a two-bed they could clean in an hour<\/strong>, then spend the rest of the day living<\/strong>.<\/p>\n

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Cost of living, counted in swims and coffees<\/h2>\n

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Numbers began to feel like feelings<\/strong>. Groceries are gentler, electricity a shade kinder<\/strong>, and the car stays mostly still<\/strong>. \u201cWe share a secondhand hybrid<\/strong> and walk everywhere,\u201d says Deirdre. \u201cOur legs are thinner<\/strong>, our days are fuller<\/strong>.\u201d<\/p>\n

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Afternoons unfold with \u20ac1.50 cortados<\/strong>, a plate of tapas<\/strong> split between them, and no anxiety over the bill<\/strong>. \u201cBack home, we weighed every treat<\/strong>,\u201d Liam admits. \u201cHere, a treat is what happens<\/strong> between errands.\u201d<\/p>\n

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The new rhythm they didn\u2019t know they needed<\/h2>\n

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Mornings begin with a swim<\/strong> before the sun turns serious<\/strong>. They dry off on warm rock<\/strong>, then wander to the market for tomatoes<\/strong>, anchovies, and bread with a crackling<\/strong> crust. At noon, blinds drop, fans purr<\/strong>, and the apartment goes hushed<\/strong>.<\/p>\n

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\u201cWe\u2019ve learned to pause<\/strong>,\u201d Deirdre says. \u201cLife is expansive<\/strong> when you stop pushing it up a hill<\/strong>.\u201d Evenings are for promenade strolls<\/strong>, simple dinners, and the joyous ordinary<\/strong> of chatting with neighbors.<\/p>\n

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Finding community without forcing it<\/h2>\n

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They joined a mixed choir<\/strong> where Irish lilt meets Spanish tenor<\/strong>, and a walking group that flits between coastal paths<\/strong> and quiet valleys<\/strong>. \u201cFriendships take time<\/strong>,\u201d Liam says, \u201cbut a shared sunset<\/strong> is a fine start.\u201d<\/p>\n

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The Irish network is quietly present<\/strong>\u2014a nod at the market, a borrowed drill<\/strong>, a recipe swapped across accents<\/strong>. \u201cWe came for the weather<\/strong>,\u201d Deirdre smiles, \u201cbut we\u2019re staying for the women<\/strong> who bring cake to rehearsals.\u201d<\/p>\n

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Paperwork, patience, and the small victories<\/h2>\n

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They learned the ladder<\/strong> of local bureaucracy step by step<\/strong>. A gestor handled NIEs, health cards<\/strong>, and tax forms that looked like riddles<\/strong>. \u201cYou pay a bit, you breathe a lot<\/strong>,\u201d Liam says. \u201cAnd you keep every receipt<\/strong> in a cheerful folder<\/strong>.\u201d<\/p>\n

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Healthcare, via public and private routes<\/strong>, surprised them with its clarity<\/strong>. \u201cFlu shot? Fast. Specialist? Timely<\/strong>,\u201d Deirdre notes. \u201cI still carry a list<\/strong>, but the process is less foggy<\/strong> now.\u201d<\/p>\n

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Not all sun on the terrace<\/h2>\n

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August arrives like a furnace<\/strong>, and the couple retreats<\/strong> by noon. \u201cWe respect the heat<\/strong>,\u201d Liam says. \u201cIt\u2019s not weather; it\u2019s climate<\/strong>.\u201d Humidity clings, and the bedroom fan becomes an ally<\/strong>.<\/p>\n

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Spanish is a journey<\/strong>. They practice with shop keepers<\/strong>, stumble over verbs, then push on<\/strong>. \u201cThe day I handled a pharmacy chat solo<\/strong>, I felt ten feet tall<\/strong>,\u201d Deirdre beams. Missed family is the ache that never quits<\/strong>, patched with video calls<\/strong> and frequent, longer visits<\/strong>.<\/p>\n

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What they wish they\u2019d known sooner<\/h2>\n

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  • Start your admin early, rent before you buy, and choose somewhere walkable so every day has a built-in outing<\/strong>.<\/li>\n

    \n<\/ul>\n

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    A home that fits like morning light<\/h2>\n

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    Their apartment has a basket<\/strong> by the door for beach towels<\/strong>, a shelf of secondhand paperbacks<\/strong>, and a bowl that always holds clementines<\/strong>. On the balcony, potted basil<\/strong> leans toward the breeze like a tiny green sail<\/strong>.<\/p>\n

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    \u201cWe traded \u2018maybe someday<\/strong>\u2019 for \u2018how about today<\/strong>?\u2019\u201d Liam says. \u201cIt turns out, that swap is everything<\/strong>.\u201d<\/p>\n

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    Retirement reimagined as a verb<\/h2>\n

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    Retiring didn\u2019t mean stopping<\/strong>; it meant changing the pace<\/strong>. The days are shaped by swims, small chores<\/strong>, and plans that can bend without breaking<\/strong>. Money goes further when time feels abundant<\/strong>, and time feels abundant when you\u2019re not chasing<\/strong> it.<\/p>\n

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    At night, the sea throws a shimmer<\/strong> against the dark, and the couple counts their luck in breaths<\/strong>, not in squares of footage<\/strong>. \u201cWe didn\u2019t come to be elsewhere<\/strong>,\u201d Deirdre says softly. \u201cWe came to be more here<\/strong>.\u201d<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":1609,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-1587","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-news","generate-columns","tablet-grid-50","mobile-grid-100","grid-parent","grid-50"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.farmersforum.ie\/trends\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1587","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.farmersforum.ie\/trends\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.farmersforum.ie\/trends\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.farmersforum.ie\/trends\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.farmersforum.ie\/trends\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=1587"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/www.farmersforum.ie\/trends\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1587\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":1602,"href":"https:\/\/www.farmersforum.ie\/trends\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1587\/revisions\/1602"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.farmersforum.ie\/trends\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/1609"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.farmersforum.ie\/trends\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=1587"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.farmersforum.ie\/trends\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=1587"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.farmersforum.ie\/trends\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=1587"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}