{"id":1025,"date":"2026-05-16T08:00:00","date_gmt":"2026-05-16T07:00:00","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.farmersforum.ie\/trends\/?p=1025"},"modified":"2026-05-14T14:13:00","modified_gmt":"2026-05-14T13:13:00","slug":"%ca%bcwe-left-england-for-ireland-in-may-and-never-wanted-to-go-back%ca%bc-this-couple-shares-their-new-life-in-galway","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.farmersforum.ie\/trends\/%ca%bcwe-left-england-for-ireland-in-may-and-never-wanted-to-go-back%ca%bc-this-couple-shares-their-new-life-in-galway\/","title":{"rendered":"\u02bcWe left England for Ireland in May and never wanted to go back\u02bc: this couple shares their new life in Galway"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>The ferry pulled into the bay under a <strong>wet<\/strong> sky, and Emma squeezed Jack\u2019s <strong>hand<\/strong>. They had crossed a narrow stretch of water, yet it felt like a <strong>continent<\/strong>, a small leap that changed <strong>everything<\/strong>. Sitting on a suitcase in the hostel common room, they decided to <strong>stay<\/strong>, to build a life where mist meets <strong>music<\/strong>.<\/p>\n<p><\/p>\n<h2>Why Galway called to them<\/h2>\n<p><\/p>\n<p>They had visited on a long <strong>weekend<\/strong>, drifting through Shop Street\u2019s <strong>buskers<\/strong> and the quiet curve of the <strong>Claddagh<\/strong>, and felt a tug they couldn\u2019t <strong>name<\/strong>. \u201cIt wasn\u2019t glamour,\u201d Jack <strong>said<\/strong>, \u201cit was the <strong>hum<\/strong> of a place that felt <strong>awake<\/strong>.\u201d They both worked remotely in <strong>design<\/strong> and communications, craving a city that was <strong>creative<\/strong> but <strong>human<\/strong>.<\/p>\n<p><\/p>\n<p>On the map it looked <strong>small<\/strong>, but the edges spill into the <strong>Atlantic<\/strong>, and that sense of <strong>horizon<\/strong> became their daily <strong>medicine<\/strong>. \u201cGalway doesn\u2019t shout,\u201d Emma <strong>added<\/strong>, \u201cit <strong>sings<\/strong>, and the note lingers in your <strong>bones<\/strong>.\u201d<\/p>\n<p><\/p>\n<h2>The first weeks: awkward, bright, and salty<\/h2>\n<p><\/p>\n<p>They found a tiny <strong>flat<\/strong> near Salthill, the kind with a <strong>stubborn<\/strong> window and a kettle that clicks like a <strong>metronome<\/strong>. The landlord handed over <strong>keys<\/strong> and a folded list of <strong>bus<\/strong> routes, and they learned the wind\u2019s <strong>grammar<\/strong> on the <strong>Prom<\/strong>. Every evening, they watched locals turn for the <strong>Blackrock<\/strong> diving tower, counting steps like a <strong>prayer<\/strong>.<\/p>\n<p><\/p>\n<p>\u201cThe weather is a <strong>character<\/strong>, not a <strong>backdrop<\/strong>,\u201d Jack laughed, stuffing towels into a <strong>backpack<\/strong> after a sudden <strong>downpour<\/strong>. They bought <strong>layers<\/strong>, seeded herbs on the <strong>sill<\/strong>, and learned to start mornings with strong <strong>tea<\/strong> and forgiving <strong>plans<\/strong>.<\/p>\n<p><\/p>\n<h2>Finding a rhythm in a city of listeners<\/h2>\n<p><\/p>\n<p>Community arrived in <strong>increments<\/strong>, a borrowed <strong>spade<\/strong>, a barista remembering their <strong>order<\/strong>, a Thursday session that welcomed a cautious <strong>bodhr\u00e1n<\/strong>. \u201cPeople actually <strong>listen<\/strong> here,\u201d Emma said, \u201cthey leave <strong>rooms<\/strong> of silence so your story can <strong>breathe<\/strong>.\u201d In a week, they had three new <strong>friends<\/strong>; in a month, they had a <strong>choir<\/strong> of names.<\/p>\n<p><\/p>\n<p>They volunteered at a <strong>cleanup<\/strong> by the river, then stayed for <strong>chips<\/strong>, watching swans fold themselves into white <strong>commas<\/strong>. On mismatched <strong>chairs<\/strong>, strangers traded recipes and <strong>routes<\/strong> to Connemara\u2019s best <strong>bog<\/strong> road at <strong>sunset<\/strong>.<\/p>\n<p><\/p>\n<h2>Work, money, and the softer clock<\/h2>\n<p><\/p>\n<p>Remote work gave them <strong>flexibility<\/strong>, but they still chased <strong>Wi\u2011Fi<\/strong> like a pair of <strong>pilgrims<\/strong>. They learned which caf\u00e9s had steady <strong>signal<\/strong>, which pubs let laptops <strong>linger<\/strong> until the first <strong>fiddle<\/strong>. \u201cThe cost of living can be <strong>spiky<\/strong>,\u201d Jack admitted, \u201cbut the return on <strong>time<\/strong> is <strong>lavish<\/strong>.\u201d<\/p>\n<p><\/p>\n<p>Their workday now <strong>breathes<\/strong>: morning emails, a fast <strong>walk<\/strong>, lunch by the <strong>Long<\/strong> Walk, then an afternoon <strong>push<\/strong> before the light <strong>slips<\/strong>. They measure days not by <strong>traffic<\/strong>, but by the sea\u2019s <strong>mood<\/strong>, and a calendar dotted with small <strong>joys<\/strong>.<\/p>\n<p><\/p>\n<h2>Weather as teacher, landscape as ally<\/h2>\n<p><\/p>\n<p>Storms blew in like <strong>drummers<\/strong>, then cleared to blinding <strong>silver<\/strong>. They bought practical <strong>coats<\/strong> and learned to name <strong>clouds<\/strong>, hearing locals talk of the <strong>west<\/strong> with protective <strong>tenderness<\/strong>. \u201cYou don\u2019t fight the <strong>rain<\/strong>,\u201d Emma said, \u201cyou make a <strong>truce<\/strong> and keep <strong>moving<\/strong>.\u201d<\/p>\n<p><\/p>\n<p>Weekends stretch <strong>wide<\/strong>: a bus to <strong>Roundstone<\/strong>, a shared <strong>flask<\/strong> on the Burren\u2019s lunar <strong>limestone<\/strong>, or a chilly dip that resets the <strong>heart<\/strong>. \u201cConnemara keeps our <strong>ego<\/strong> in check,\u201d Jack <strong>smiled<\/strong>, \u201cthe mountains are always <strong>older<\/strong> and always <strong>right<\/strong>.\u201d<\/p>\n<p><\/p>\n<h2>Trad nights, small rituals, and the art of showing up<\/h2>\n<p><\/p>\n<p>They stopped chasing the \u201cbest\u201d <strong>pub<\/strong> and started showing up at the one with a <strong>corner<\/strong> that feels like <strong>home<\/strong>. A fiddler nods, the <strong>room<\/strong> leans in, and songs with <strong>salt<\/strong> on them spill into the <strong>night<\/strong>. They walk back along wet <strong>cobbles<\/strong>, trading lines of <strong>poems<\/strong> they never meant to <strong>memorize<\/strong>.<\/p>\n<p><\/p>\n<p>Out of the big-city <strong>hurry<\/strong>, they made small <strong>rituals<\/strong>:<\/p>\n<p><\/p>\n<ul><\/p>\n<li>A Friday swim at <strong>high<\/strong> tide, no matter the <strong>mood<\/strong><\/li>\n<p><\/p>\n<li>A monthly train to <strong>Dublin<\/strong> to remember the <strong>scale<\/strong><\/li>\n<p><\/p>\n<li>A notebook of overheard <strong>phrases<\/strong>, saved like <strong>seeds<\/strong><\/li>\n<p><\/p>\n<li>One new <strong>route<\/strong> each week, even if it\u2019s only a new <strong>alley<\/strong><\/li>\n<p>\n<\/ul>\n<p><\/p>\n<h2>What they miss, and what they don\u2019t<\/h2>\n<p><\/p>\n<p>They miss late-night <strong>takeaways<\/strong>, a particular <strong>park<\/strong>, the familiar thrum of <strong>friends<\/strong> within twenty <strong>minutes<\/strong>. They do not miss the <strong>commute<\/strong>, the Tuesday <strong>misery<\/strong>, or the sense that their best <strong>hours<\/strong> were being spent on <strong>nothing<\/strong>.<\/p>\n<p><\/p>\n<p>\u201cHere we\u2019re not <strong>escaping<\/strong>,\u201d Emma said, \u201cwe\u2019re <strong>arriving<\/strong>, again and <strong>again<\/strong>.\u201d A gull screams like a <strong>critic<\/strong>, the kettle hisses like a polite <strong>storm<\/strong>, and they feel oddly <strong>grown<\/strong> and newly <strong>light<\/strong>.<\/p>\n<p><\/p>\n<h2>Advice for the next ferry<\/h2>\n<p><\/p>\n<p>If you plan to swap one coast for <strong>another<\/strong>, they suggest small <strong>courage<\/strong> and practical <strong>boots<\/strong>. Ask <strong>questions<\/strong>, learn how to pronounce <strong>Gaillimh<\/strong>, buy a decent <strong>map<\/strong>, and tip the first musician who stops your <strong>breath<\/strong>. \u201cLet the place <strong>teach<\/strong> you,\u201d Jack said, \u201cand don\u2019t rush the <strong>hello<\/strong>.\u201d<\/p>\n<p><\/p>\n<p>They didn\u2019t find a perfect <strong>life<\/strong>, just a truer <strong>cadence<\/strong>, the kind that fits your <strong>lungs<\/strong> and lets your days <strong>sing<\/strong>. On clear evenings, the light turns <strong>liquid<\/strong>, the tide pulls at your <strong>ankles<\/strong>, and you remember why you <strong>came<\/strong> and how to quietly <strong>stay<\/strong>.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":1063,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-1025","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-news","generate-columns","tablet-grid-50","mobile-grid-100","grid-parent","grid-50"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.farmersforum.ie\/trends\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1025","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.farmersforum.ie\/trends\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.farmersforum.ie\/trends\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.farmersforum.ie\/trends\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.farmersforum.ie\/trends\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=1025"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/www.farmersforum.ie\/trends\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1025\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":1050,"href":"https:\/\/www.farmersforum.ie\/trends\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1025\/revisions\/1050"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.farmersforum.ie\/trends\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/1063"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.farmersforum.ie\/trends\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=1025"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.farmersforum.ie\/trends\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=1025"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.farmersforum.ie\/trends\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=1025"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}